Friday, July 3, 2009

Anonymous question...

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "Formula fericirii sta in sex...":

Jean could you give an advice? I met a guy very casual I was crossing one street and he was making a stop, he saw me and we smile, he pulled over and asked me for my phone number I gave it to him, we met two times and he wants to have sex with me since the first time. Do you think if I have sex with him is he gonna take me seriously? What guys think about girls that have sex in the first date, second or third? Do you guys appreciate a girl like that or doesn't matter?. What guys think make a girl appreciate?. Could you give me an advice? I will appreciate it. Thank you

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Posted by Anonymous to Jean...only one mask! at July 3, 2009 12:07 AM

E o lume confuza...dupa cum tot ziceam...drept dovada intrebari de genul anonimului de mai sus...mi se pare interesant comentul...subiect de comentat prieteni...

11 comments:

Jean... said...

la prima intalnire e putin dubios...numai daca nu l-ai lasat sa inteleaga din discutie sau cum a decurs intalnirea ca ai vrea sa faci asta la prima intalnire
la a doua intalnire nu mi s-ar parea deloc ciudat daca atractia e mare
la a treia e ceva normal mai alaes in ziua de azi cand traim o revolutie sexuala si lucrurile se intampla mult mai repede...
cat depre apreciere?!...nu cred ca nu ai mai fii apreciata daca ai avea sex chiar din prima...depinde de om...de situatie

Anonymous said...

Thank you Jean.

Gabi said...

First of all, how the hell do you know, Jean, that "Anonymous" understands Romanian? :-)

Secondly, I agree with you from the point of view of a relation based on sex only. Your approach would not qualify the lady as "easy". However, I still stand by my assessment earlier that a meaningful relationship is based on three pillars, love, friendship and sex, and I am not sure either love of friendship could be attained after a few dates.

Gabi

Jean... said...

pai Gabi anonima intelege romana pt ca imi citeste toate posturile...cred chiar ca e romanca,dar ii place sa se joace..
cat despre subiect ai dreptate dar cateodata atractia este foarte mare si chiar daca relatia incepe sexual chiar de la primele intalniri cred ca in timp s poate construii ceva mai serios...fara a crede fata a fost easy...

Gabi said...

Logic, ai dreptate cu Romana. Si ai dreptate si ca se poate construi ceva in astfel de cazuri, insa sansa este mai mica asa... Dar s-au vazut cazuri.

Gabi

Anonymous said...

I use a translator to understand Romano and I am not playing it is something that it is happening to me. I had never start a relationship like this before, my previous boyfriends where friends first or I met them from another friends of mine. But I have been asking to the Universe to give me a handsome and a good heart boyfriend and this guy came! he is handsome and I feel he is a good person but I still feel afraid because I don't know that much about him. I don't do sex just for fun but probably is that he wants, should I take the risk? should I enjoy him and have a good time? should I wait for somebody else? how can I know if I am be alive for that?. I think I need to talk more about this with him and put clear what I want because I really want something with all the three this: love, friendship and sex. But in which order the things start? all the three are important anyone more than other.

Gabi said...

Hey Anonymous,

The good thing is that it's your decision (not him or anybody else's). Whatever works for some might not work for others, so you need to see what's best for you. If you say yes, this could still end good.

Good luck.

Gabi said...

... oh and something else, Jean's comment that you like to play was not referring to your situation, but to your desire to write in English when you seemed to be speaking Romanian (not Romano:-))

Jean... said...

Gabi you're cracking me up...im in Frisco baby

Gabi said...

Distractie placuta, pune poze pe blog...

Anonymous said...

Thank you Gabi for think about this ...you must be a wonderful friend. Jean enjoy San Francisco!!!